Which type of introvert?

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Did you know that various studies have classed introverts like us into different groups. I’m going to talk about one such classification today. According to Dr. Jonathan Cheek, a psychology professor at Wellesley College, these types are social, thinking, anxious, and restrained.

Let’s explore each type, so you can figure out which one sounds most like you.

1. The Social Butterfly Introvert

If you’re a social introvert, you probably prefer small, intimate gatherings over big, wild parties. One-on-one convos are totally your jam, and you crave those deep, meaningful chats that let you really connect with someone.

Sure, you might enjoy hanging out with people, but you’re pretty selective about how often you do it. You know your energy is precious, so you don’t want to waste it on just anyone or anything.

When you do spend time socializing, you’ll likely need some solo time afterwards to recharge those batteries. It’s like your introvert superpower – a little alone time, and you’re ready to take on the world again!

Studies have even shown that social introverts have a lower threshold for dopamine, which is a brain chemical linked to reward and pleasure (Kahnweiler, 2013). In other words, you don’t need a ton of external stimulation to feel content and happy.

So, if you’re a social introvert, embrace those intimate gatherings and one-on-one convos! They’re where you shine brightest.

2. The Deep Thinker Introvert

You’re the type who’s always lost in thought, exploring ideas and concepts in that rich inner world of yours. Alone time is your happy place, because it gives you the space to contemplate and analyze to your heart’s content.

You’re probably super creative and imaginative, using your solitude to dream up new ideas and solutions. Whether you’re writing, researching, programming, or tackling any other task that requires deep concentration, you’re in your element.

In fact, a study by Kaufman (2014) revealed that thinking introverts score higher on measures of creativity compared to other introvert types. It’s like your ability to focus intensely on your inner world is your secret weapon!

So, if you’re a thinking introvert, don’t be afraid to embrace your introspective nature. It’s what makes you unique and allows you to come up with those brilliant insights and ideas.

3. The Shy and Sensitive Introvert

If you’re an anxious introvert, social situations might make you feel a bit uneasy or self-conscious. It’s not that you don’t like connecting with others – you totally do! But you might worry about being judged or saying the wrong thing, which can be tough.

You might experience social anxiety or shyness, which can make it challenging to start conversations or speak up for yourself. But here’s the thing – your sensitivity is actually a superpower!

Anxious introverts tend to be highly empathetic and tuned in to others’ emotions. You’re probably an amazing listener and can offer a supportive, understanding presence to your loved ones.

Research by Forster et al. (2019) found that anxious introverts have heightened activity in the amygdala, which is the part of the brain that processes emotions and detects threats. So, if you’re an anxious introvert, know that your sensitivity is a gift, even if it sometimes feels like a challenge.

4. The Cautious and Careful Introvert

You’re the type who’s cautious and reserved, always thinking before you speak or act. You might take a bit longer to warm up to new people or situations, but once you do, you form those deep, lasting connections.

As a restrained introvert, you probably value stability and predictability. You thrive in structured environments with clear expectations, where you can really shine with your detail-oriented and thorough approach.

You’re the reliable and dependable team member everyone can count on, because you don’t rush into things without careful consideration.

And get this – a study by Zelenski et al. (2012) found that restrained introverts tend to have a more positive outlook on life compared to anxious introverts. It’s like your thoughtful, deliberate approach to life is the key to your greater sense of well-being and satisfaction.

So, if you’re a restrained introvert, embrace your cautious and careful nature. It’s what makes you so trustworthy and valuable in any situation.

What’s Your Introvert Type?

So, there you have it – the four types of introverts! Whether you’re a social butterfly who thrives in intimate settings, a deep thinker who craves solitude to explore ideas, a shy and sensitive soul with a gift for empathy, or a cautious and careful type who values stability, your unique introvert traits are something to celebrate, right?

Let me know in the comments which type resonates with you the most! I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Sources:

  • Cheek, J. M. (2013). The four meanings of introversion: Social, thinking, anxious, and inhibited introversion. Wellesley College.
  • Forster, S., Nunez Elizalde, A. O., Castle, E., & Bishop, S. J. (2019). Unraveling the anxious mind: anxiety, worry, and frontal engagement in sustained attention versus off-task processing. Cerebral Cortex, 29(2), 609-618.
  • Kahnweiler, J. B. (2013). Quiet influence: The introvert’s guide to making a difference. Berrett-Koehler Publishers.
  • Kaufman, S. B. (2014). The differences between extroverts and introverts. Scientific American.
  • Zelenski, J. M., Santoro, M. S., & Whelan, D. C. (2012). Would introverts be better off if they acted more like extraverts? Exploring emotional and cognitive consequences of counterdispositional behavior. Emotion, 12(2), 290.

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11 Comments

  1. I am apparently a hybrid. I am happy as a Social Introvert when the situation allows, but my alone time features Deep Thinking, and/or active creative activity. (I’m a retired industrial designer/inventor. Most of my successful designs emerged from a period of brain churning, even from dreams.)

  2. Hi Keith…. Very interesting. Although I have traits of all four, my strongest trait is from the Social Butterfly. That sums me up very well.

  3. Just read about the ‘Social Butterfly Introvert’ and wow, that’s totally me. Always thought I was an odd one out preferring small gatherings but now it makes so much sense. Makes me appreciate my introvert traits more, honestly.

  4. i really connect with the ‘deep thinker introvert’ part. it’s like my mind is always on a journey lol. love having that alone time to just think and explore ideas.

  5. I think I am the shy and sensitive type. It is the one that seems most like me, though I think I am a little of all of them.

  6. Interesting read, but don’t we all fit into more than one category at different times? I find myself in different introvert types based on the situation. It’s not all black and white, you know?

  7. reading about the shy and sensitive introvert really hits home for me. it’s tough feeling anxious in social stuff but it’s cool to know others feel the same. makes me feel a bit less alone in how I handle things.

  8. I really loved this article and thank you for sharing it. I find that I am part 1. and 3. I guess you can find parts of yourself in most of the types, but some really describe me. I do prefer small groups instead of loud gatherings, I like people but I don’t require them since I can be content just with me and my cat Lola. I do love deep conversations but they are difficult to find here (I am in a community atmosphere) and since I don’t get too involved with people I don’t get to enjoy them. Living in a community there is gossip and childish actions so I stay away from them. Also, just in case it helps, I am a VIRGO and I am a true Virgo. I am very sensitive (too sensitive) but most people don’t know that since I come across as confident and being 5′-9″ this is how I come across but once you know me you will like me. I have a friend who loves to hug people, no. I hope you have more of these great articles. Yes, I am a bit wordy. : )

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