Let’s face it, being an introvert with social anxiety can lead to some pretty awkward moments. But hey, that’s what makes us unique, right?
Here are 7 quirky things I’ve done that fellow introverts might relate to.
1. Pretending to Be on the Phone
You know those times when you’re walking down the street and spot someone you kind of know, but you’re just not in the mood for small talk? Cue the fake phone call.
I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve whipped out my phone and pretended to be deep in conversation, just to avoid an awkward encounter. It’s like my personal invisibility cloak.
2. Rehearsing Conversations in My Head
Before making a phone call or attending a social event, I often find myself rehearsing potential conversations in my head. I’ll go through all the possible scenarios, trying to anticipate what the other person might say and how I should respond.
It’s like a mental game of chess, except I’m playing against myself. And let’s be honest, I usually end up overthinking it anyway.
3. Avoiding Eye Contact at All Costs
Making eye contact can be incredibly uncomfortable for introverts with social anxiety. I’ve caught myself staring at the ground, the ceiling, or anything else that isn’t a pair of eyes more times than I care to admit.
It’s not that I’m trying to be rude; it’s just that sometimes, the intensity of direct eye contact can be overwhelming. So, if you ever catch me looking at your shoes during a conversation, don’t take it personally!
4. Hiding in the Bathroom
When social situations become too much to handle, the bathroom becomes my sanctuary. I’ve spent more time than I’d like to admit hiding out in bathroom stalls, taking deep breaths and giving myself a mental pep talk.
It’s like a temporary escape from the chaos of the outside world. Plus, it’s a great excuse to take a break from socializing without looking like a total weirdo.
5. Overanalyzing Text Messages
Texting can be a double-edged sword for introverts. On one hand, it allows us to communicate without the pressure of face-to-face interaction. On the other hand, it opens up a whole new world of overanalysis.
I’ve spent way too much time dissecting the meaning behind a single emoji or wondering if my message came across the way I intended. It’s like a never-ending cycle of self-doubt.
6. Secretly Hoping Plans Get Cancelled
As much as I enjoy spending time with friends and loved ones, there’s a part of me that secretly hopes plans will get cancelled at the last minute. It’s not that I don’t want to see them; it’s just that sometimes, the idea of staying home in my pajamas is too tempting to resist.
Of course, I would never actually cancel plans myself. That would be rude. But if someone else does it? It’s like a gift from the introvert gods.
7. Leaving Parties Early
I’m the master of the Irish exit. And that’s not even because I have to be actually born and raised in Ireland! When I’ve reached my social limit at a party or gathering, I have a tendency to slip out quietly without saying goodbye to anyone.
It’s not that I’m trying to be sneaky; it’s just that the thought of making a big exit and drawing attention to myself is too overwhelming. So, if you’re ever at a party and suddenly realize I’m gone, don’t worry. I’m probably just at home, recharging my introvert batteries.
Embrace Your Quirks
Being an introvert with social anxiety can be challenging, but it’s also what makes you unique. Embrace your quirks and remember that you’re not alone.
We’re all just navigating this crazy world in our own way. So, the next time you find yourself hiding in the bathroom or pretending to be on the phone, just know that there’s probably another introvert out there doing the exact same thing.
What’s the quirkiest thing you’ve done as an introvert? Share your stories in the comments below!
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