If you’ve ever wondered whether your partner’s personality traits could predict their likelihood of cheating, brace yourself for some juicy findings. According to recent research, extroverts might be more likely to stray than introverts.
Let’s dive into the top 5 reasons why, backed by scientific research!
1. Extroverts and their partners are more likely to cheat
Allen & Walter (2018) found that extroversion, characterized by being social, assertive, and emotionally expressive, is linked to higher sexual activity and a greater willingness to take sexual risks.
This means that not only are extroverts more likely to cheat themselves, but their partners are also more likely to cheat. It’s a double-edged sword!
2. Extroverts can have affairs without feeling guilty
Research by Dr. Nicholas Holtzman (2014) suggests that even while married, confident, outgoing people are able to have a string of affairs without feeling guilty.
They also carry more “narcissistic” and “psychopathic” personality traits, which may contribute to their ability to engage in infidelity without remorse.
3. Neurotic partners drive extroverts to cheat
Allen & Walter (2018) discovered that while being high in neuroticism (think moodiness, emotional instability, and excessive sadness) doesn’t necessarily make you more likely to cheat, it does make your partner more likely to stray.
Why? Probably because a neurotic partner is less present, engaged, and invested in meeting their extroverted partner’s sexual needs.
4. Agreeable people are less likely to cheat
On the bright side, Allen & Walter (2018) found that people high in agreeableness (think kindness, altruism, and pro-social behaviors) are less likely to engage in sexual infidelity.
Dr. Holtzman (2014) also noted that those seeking long-term relationships are better off with conscientious and agreeable partners, as they tend to be more honest, humble, and less likely to pursue one-night stands.
5. Infidelity rates are on the rise for both men and women
Fincham & May (2017) reviewed the literature on infidelity and found that women are now just as likely to cheat on their partners as men are.
They also noted that one in five partners will cheat on a spouse at some point over the course of a lifetime, with the typical “one year prior rate” being around 2-4%. Yikes!
The Bottom Line
While research by Allen & Walter (2018), Fincham & May (2017), and Dr. Holtzman (2014) suggests that extroverts and their partners might be more prone to cheating, remember that personality traits obviously aren’t the sole factor at play.
Infidelity is a super complex issue influenced by personal values, relationship satisfaction, and communication.
Ultimately, the key to a healthy, faithful relationship is open communication, trust, and mutual respect, regardless of whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert. Focus on building a strong foundation with your partner and creating a love that lasts.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic! Do you think the research hits the nail on the head, or do you have a different take? Share your experiences and opinions in the comments below!
References:
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/lifetime-connections/201901/are-extroverts-more-likely-be-unfaithful-introverts
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/lifetime-connections/201901/are-extroverts-more-likely-be-unfaithful-introverts
- https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2549872/Extroverts-heartbreakers-Research-suggests-married-confident-people-able-affairs-without-feeling-guilty.html
